Valentine’s Day can feel like A LOT—whether it’s the pressure to be in love, to plan something elaborate, or even just to pretend you don’t care about it. But here’s the truth: love starts with you. This year, instead of getting down and scrolling through everyone else’s highlight reels, why not make February 14th a day to nourish yourself? Reframe this time as an opportunity to pour love into your own cup first. Here are four ways to celebrate yourself this Valentine’s Day—because you one-thousand percent deserve it.

1. Set the Mood with a Self-Love Ritual

Love and ritual go hand in hand, and there’s no better way to honor yourself than with a practice that feels sacred. Light a candle (might I suggest our Equinox Candle for grounding or Amber + Oakmoss Candle for a warm embrace?) and take a moment to reflect. Speak affirmations into the flame—words like I am worthy of love and I honor my own magic. Pair it with a bath, some palo santo, or even a journaling session to set loving intentions for yourself. A little ritual goes a long way in shifting energy and reminding you that your love is the most constant thing in your life.

2. Host a Vision Board Party with Friends

Solo self-love is beautiful, but there’s also something deeply nourishing about gathering with friends who uplift you. Invite a few of your favorite people over for a vision board night—a chance to dream up your future and manifest abundance together. Gather old magazines, scissors, and glue sticks, and set the vibe with some cacao, cozy music, and incense. Create a board that reflects the love, experiences, and energy you want to attract—not just in romance, but in all areas of life. Bonus: You’ll walk away feeling inspired and connected, which is the best kind of love there is.

3. Adorn Yourself Like the Goddess You Are

Jewelry isn’t just about the sparkle—it’s an extension of your energy, a way to honor yourself. This Valentine’s Day, wear something that makes you feel powerful. Maybe it’s a Lazer Links bracelet as a symbol of the love you’re committed to within yourself, or a crystal that supports your heart chakra like Rose Quartz, Jade, or Aventurine. Adornment can be an act of self-devotion, a tangible reminder that you are worthy of beauty, care, and a little bit of luxury—just for you.

4. Write Yourself a Love Letter (And Actually Read It!)

If you’ve never written yourself a love letter, this is your sign. Grab a pen and write to yourself the way you’d write to someone you adore. Talk about how proud you are of yourself, what you appreciate about your heart, your resilience, your softness. Be as generous with your words as you would be with a lover. Then, read it out loud—because sometimes we need to hear the love we long for, straight from our own lips. 

Valentine’s Day isn’t just about romantic love—it’s a reminder that love is expansive, and the most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one with yourself. So light that candle, wear the jewelry, gather your friends, and show up for yourself fully. You deserve it, today and always.

Sending you love, from our hearts to yours. 
-Team Angela Monaco